You know that just because someone doesn't agree with someone else's lifestyle, that doesn't mean that they are afraid of them. (I'm objecting to your use of the word homophobe here. the -phobe part implies fear. Plus I just really dislike that word. They could have picked a better one.)
On a personal note, if the gays want to get married, I have no issue with them taking their free will and doing what they want with it. I think government shouldn't be involved in anyone's marriage, gay or straight, or whatever. A marriage should be a contract between 2 people. There is no need to involve government in that unless someone breaks the contract and seeks damages of some sort. If the people agreeing to this contract want to have a ceremony, thats fine by me, but there is no need for the government to recognize or have anything to do with the ceremony any more than there is for them to have anything to do with the contract.
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On a personal note, if the gays want to get married, I have no issue with them taking their free will and doing what they want with it. I think government shouldn't be involved in anyone's marriage, gay or straight, or whatever. A marriage should be a contract between 2 people. There is no need to involve government in that unless someone breaks the contract and seeks damages of some sort. If the people agreeing to this contract want to have a ceremony, thats fine by me, but there is no need for the government to recognize or have anything to do with the ceremony any more than there is for them to have anything to do with the contract.